Add metadata?: Record<string, unknown> to StreamOptions so providers
can extract fields they understand. Anthropic provider extracts user_id
for abuse tracking and rate limiting. Other providers ignore it.
Based on #1384 by @7Sageer, reworked to use a generic type instead of
Anthropic-specific typing on the base interface.
When a provider (e.g., Google Gemini CLI) requests a retry delay longer
than maxDelayMs (default: 60s), the request fails immediately with an
informative error instead of waiting silently for hours.
The error is then handled by agent-level auto-retry, which shows the
delay to the user and allows aborting with Escape.
- Add maxRetryDelayMs to StreamOptions (packages/ai)
- Add maxRetryDelayMs to AgentOptions (packages/agent)
- Add retry.maxDelayMs to settings (packages/coding-agent)
- Update _isRetryableError to match 'retry delay' errors
fixes#1123